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When you see the love between Lady Rock and Woody, it makes marriage seem hopeful. To celebrate love in a world of break ups, and sorrow is so wonderful. Is it possible for young couples to look forward to 33 years and more loving each other.

What are the secrets? Share your views.

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I don't know that there are any secrets. There are several things that I am certain of that helped us keep our marriage for 33 years. Some of these things are so simple,but overlooked by many.
One thing is to remember to say "I Love You" every single day,even if you don't feel particularly amorous. It won't make your lips bleed to say it,and you never know when your significant other needs to hear it. It helps to constantly reinforce your relationship,and I don't know many people who can read minds,you have to say it.
Another thing is to MAKE SURE you spend some time together every day,no matter what. I have seen many couples that have so many social activities,that they don't have time for each other. "He" goes to his buddies place to play cards,"she" goes to all the tupperware parties,"he" sits in front of the TV watching football and "she" goes rummaging with her friends. I know couples that even take seperate vacations! If you allow enough of these activies to consume your time,you might be lucky to pass one another in the hallway now and then.
Listen to each other. Stop "talking and telling" long enough to hear what's being said,and guys,saying "yes dear" to everything is not listening. That's called lip service,and she knows when you are not paying attention. She might be telling you the most important thing in the world to her,and if you give a half-hearted answer,you may as well have just kept your mouth shut.
If you don't have very many common interests,try to develope some. Sharing in a hobby with your life-mate is a very rewarding experience. There are lots of things that two people can do together that are not gender related,and the possibilities are boundless.
One last thing,and THIS IS THE BIG ONE as far as I'm concerned. Never,ever call each other names. NEVER! Every couple ends up in an argument from time to time,and sometimes it ends up with harsh words flying back and forth. Once you have said something hurtful or mean-spirited to each other it is difficult to forget those words,even after you have made up! There is a way to deal with this,my dad told me before I was married and I have only had to do it a few times,but it worked everytime. When things are heating up and you feel like you about to explode with anger,when you know the next thing that may come out of your mouth is the absolutely wrong thing,excuse yourself and take a walk. Don't leave her,don't go too far,just take a stroll around the block,and give yourself and her time to cool down. While you are cooling off,you may realise you were wrong,or see the solution to the problem because your mind isn't clouded with anger. When you do this,it is absolutely a must to make it clear that you are just taking a walk and you will be back shortly. This has never failed me,and as I said,I have only had to resort to it a few times in 33 years.
Kim and I have been married 12 years. I think at 10 years is when you finally get to know each other well and you truly become a couple. Thanks for your input Woody,there are some real good ideas in your comment!

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