LADIES ONLY ......can you make him cry?

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Comment by Moiko Showcase on April 10, 2009 at 4:44am

A Bit of Humor for all my "Lady Friends". ;-)



Wishing each and everyone a great weekend and hope to see you on Blog Talk Radio this Saturday, supporting our "Reggae International" Charity CD debut.

With Love ....

Your One and Only,
Word Man

Comment by Johnathan Devil on December 6, 2008 at 9:48am

Thanks Crystal, I just try to be real and call it as I see it. Trust me though, I have always had my fair share of "Bull in the China Shop" moments and I'm sure I will have many more! Your right (as always from my viewpoint), it really is a relief and blessing to be able to believe in someone and know that what they say is true. Maybe one day I'll get to experience that again. I guess its something to hope for:) Hope everyones having a wonderful weekend!

Comment by Crystal Cartier VP on December 6, 2008 at 4:22am

Beloved Jonathan you are so precious! I love a man with the ability to honestly express his emotions and the sensitivity to be thoughtful in what he says. In this arena too many men are like bulls in a china cabinet. (smile) My hubby is one of them. But that doesn't mean that he's deliberately rude or unromantic. He's just inexperienced at the art of romance. It is an art form you know. Its kinda sweet actually that he is so clumsy. I take comfort in the fact that at least he's not a silver tongued devil that uses words insincerely to seduce & manipulate.

LindyLou I feel you 100%. In answer to your question regarding what can we do? My reply is this... Self control is what sets us apart & above the rest of the animal kingdom.

Men have the strength to physically abuse women. But, the civilized gentleman would never do so because he exercises self control. Like wise, women are clever and armed with a vicious tongue that can castrate & break a man down to his knees if she so desires.... or drive him into an angry frenzy. Again, it is the art of self control that should keep our tongues/weapons in check. Sometimes it really is better to be kind as opposed to right. As Kenny Rogers says in the Gambler... "You've got to know when to hold 'em. Know when to fold 'em. Know when to walk away and know when to run." When in possession of a lethal weapon one must practice responsible use of it. Plainly put... Sometimes women just need to shut the hell up. Hold your tongue and walk away. Let him reflect on what's been said & cool down. He'll come around on his own if we just stop trying to break him down. Sometimes we push too hard.

I especially dislike women that get overly physical inviting disaster. One slap should be statement enuf. Girls need to relearn how to effectively use our feminine wiles. The women's rights movement has gone too far. So that now men are vindictively using it against us. Trust me... I know of what I speak. My experiences in the U.S. Army were enuf to drive that point home quite clearly. But the old adages hold true. Always be a lady no matter what you do. Give respect to get respect. Treat others like you want them to treat you and you won't go wrong. Only fight like a cat when you have to do so.

As for posting songs that I've written that made my man cry. My entire CD is a Love Story. Before I learned the true meaning & value of Love I was a wreckless little heartbreaker. I learned my lessons the hard way. Our life experiences make us who we are today. We either keep growing or we die.

Comment by Johnathan Devil on December 5, 2008 at 7:39pm

A lot of very wonderful sentiments today. I love just about anything Crystal writes anyway, as was stated earlier, so definitely eloquent! From what I can see, she definitely understands us big old babies. lol. As for Lindylou, I completely understand what you mean and why feminist are the way that they are. I believe in equal rights for all and treating others regardless of who or what they are the way I like to be treated until given a reason to do otherwise. There are a lot of shovenists out there, I know, but that doesn't mean we all deserve that rap. After all, from one individual to the next, we are all different and I just simply choose to accept that. No difference in any of us makes anyone of us any better or worse than the other until our actions delegate otherwise and who am I to judge? Just some guy on a hill who realizes that he doesn't really no anything for sure except what he can see and even that view cant be trusted at times. I don't think I'm going to post a song Moiko, as most of my songs are sad and inspired by the lack of trust from a loved one which honestly made me cry many times and yeah, they probably will make you cry too, unfortunately, so you guys/gals are welcome to take your pick from my page, lol. Oh and BTW - I was INVITED to join this group:)

Comment by Moiko President & CEO on December 5, 2008 at 3:50pm

All of you amaze me. With all this talent on this site, we should have the best blogs and discussions on the internet. When I sit back and see your words, I see a song in each one of them. Writers don't stop with the comment, or the blog, you create a song. Somewhere in your files I know you have a song that fits this topic. Please post it in your next comment. Crystal, LindyLou, and Jonathan, you all have amazed me to day, in that my comment was for fun, yet something deeper, and more important was derived out of it. I look forward to a few of your videos, and a song, cause, we don't want to make our men cry, we just want to love them!

Comment by Crystal Cartier VP on December 5, 2008 at 3:43pm

Beloved any woman worth her salt knows how to make her man cry... no matter how strong he is. If he loves her, she can break his heart &/or pull his strings simply because, if she has done her homework, she knows what makes him tick. The first thing any wise woman will do is make him comfortable & encourage him to share his hopes & dreams, history & secret things. Then LISTEN.... yet never (openly) use the info against him. The more a person tells you about themselves, they are really investing that portion of themselves in you. Women have to learn how to be good storekeepers or guardians of their man's emotional vulnerabilities & wealth (both tangible & intangible). The most important thing to remember is that "People love us because of the way we make them feel about themselves." This rule applies to men & women equally. The most important factor in maintaining a healthy relationship is not learning how to get along but in learning how to fight. No matter how well you get along at some point you are bound to disagree. This is where the strength of your relationship is tested. NEVER HIT BELOW THE BELT!!! Words said in anger leave psychological scars that can never be erased.

God gave men physical strength to provide, protect & care for their family. But He/She made women smarter & attractive in order to better survive as the weaker sex and be appealing so that men WANT to take care of us. That is why babies are so beautiful & adorably defenseless. No one would care about caring for them if they were ugly & unpleasant. Ugly unpleasant folks have to be self sufficient. While we know that if you are small &/or charming, young & beautiful you can pretty much get away with anything.... with the opposite sex. That is why elderly people are so abused & unhappy because no one wants to touch them anymore. But we touch & kiss pretty creatures constantly. Even dogs & cats. Soft & fluffy little critters get treated like royalty while big short haired clumsy animals get thrown outdoors & fed bones, leftovers & garbage.

Likewise, a beautiful woman is treasured, coddled, fawned over & spoiled. If she is indeed beautiful inside & out, then she is indeed coveted as a precious treasure even after her outer (commercial) beauty fades. That woman can make her man laugh, cry, walk upright, excel, run, soar or die for her. She can also easily destroy him. Too many self centered vain pretty faces (book covers) have irreparably hurt those that dared to love them and ruined them for anyone else. Hence, the war of the sexes where today our roles have been reversed and too many women end up alone raising children on their own. Meanwhile too many men have turned into self loving peacocks refusing to accept responsibility for anyone or anything but their own hedonist lifestyles.

As for making a man cry... of course we can. But what we have to ask ourselves... is it worth it? It all depends on the context in which it is done. If out of compassion... okay. But, never out of anger if we can avoid it.

Comment by Johnathan Devil on December 5, 2008 at 3:32pm

"To squabble over the spoils", lol. Well, again I say wow! I personally think there is strength and weakness in both genders and neither one is better than the other. Its when both sides decide to come together in complimentary behaviors that I feel real strength can be observed.

Comment by Moiko President & CEO on December 5, 2008 at 11:06am

Sometime beautiful music, that seem to touch an emotion, makes me cry. Even just instrumentals sometime. I love the Sax, it is my favorite instrument and there is this guy that plays the sax that bring tears to my eyes.

Comment by Johnathan Devil on December 5, 2008 at 10:57am

Well, I can speak only for myself, but yeah, I do cry. I think it takes a real man to do so openly with no shame and I think the ability to do so is a sign of true strength. Men or women; what difference does it make? We all have pain or joy and happiness. I cried like a little baby when my son was born; I cried when I watched "August Rush" for the first time. A lot of men believe they will appear less manly if they are observed crying, but that's just not true. Now bare in mind, I'm not saying that I cry at the "drop of a hat", lol, nor do most other men. I'm sure there are also tears of attrition like summerrain mentioned, but those guys are just wimps, lol. I don't think Ive ever cried when Ive had to take responsibility for my actions, since I was a kid anyway and I think that a lot of "men" have yet to mature into one, lol. My Dad is the worst example. A 55 year old 17 year old who believe that being a man only requires facial hair, lol. Theres a lot more to it that people, lol.

Comment by Robson dos Santos on December 5, 2008 at 7:11am

(be happy every day in your life)

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