PLEASE DON'T BLAME ME!

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Comment by makinitpretty on August 10, 2009 at 11:45pm

More importantly,why don't we first look at ourselves when something goes wrong,knowing that it is our chance to grow! God gives us everything for a reason,find the reason and we are given a chance to blossom! Where there is pain there is gain!!

Comment by Support on December 28, 2008 at 7:04pm

The blame game is when people make mistakes and try to blame the results on someone else. It takes a real Man or a real woman to fess up

Comment by SummerRain on December 22, 2008 at 9:58pm

That is so true P.E.A.C.E. and your name entails just that....give yourself peace and stop all the madness of getting yourself worked up over something you can't change. The only thing you can do is work on is yourself. The truth hurts when you have to look in the mirror and see "self".

Comment by Moiko President & CEO on December 22, 2008 at 9:59am

I know P..E.A.C.E- I wasted invaluable time blaming everybody and everything. I had a reason Not getting the mail out of the box LOL excuses, and blame for everything until I realized that it was me, making excuses. So we all have done it at some point. Freedom comes when you stop. When things happen you get the heck up and keep going, like the sunrise fresh and new everyday, on the job consistently, no matter how big the storm was the day before.

Comment by P.E.A.C.E. on December 22, 2008 at 6:22am

To blame is easy,to accept responsibility is hard.Thus, you have the saying "the truth hurts". We know everyone can't handle the truth.The hardest truth to deal with is when it unveils your hand or your fault,your error. We have to get out of the way of our own healing and face the pain,the memories, the consequence,or whatever the case may be, to establish healing and a sense of freedom. The truth shall set you free!!! Trust me I Know;) THE BLAMER WAS ME, JUST YESTERDAY!!! Your sista,P.E.A.C.E.

Comment by It Aint About Us Project on December 21, 2008 at 8:11pm

On a different Group, Crystal asked that someone explain to her what is Hip Hop. I was shocked, because I really have to say, I didn't get it either and had to ask the same question. We were both raised in the Church with two parents, and were both daddy's little girls. So, try hard as you like, but everyone is not going to join in your pity party. We may not feel your rage. We did not live your life, and did not walk in your shoes. We did not create your demons inside.

Here is what my daddy used to do when one of us was mad, he would open the door and say, devil , I rebuke you, in the name of Jesus, and I cast you out of my house and my family and my child. Just the words alone seemed to create such a peace and a calm. Why do you give victory to those demons that hold you hostage. Cast them out and look ahead and don't look back. My mom had a different approach. LOL She would call you to her and ask, Are you mad? and if you say yes Maam. She would say, you better scratch your butt and get glad. LOL. That worked too! Cause by the time you finish scratching your bottom, you have to wonder, what was that all about, and laugh. No one was allowed to go to bed angry. Everybody has a story King. The thing is this, Some people rise above it. I thought my story was so terrible I wrote a book, until I read other peoples stories. Then my book and felt silly because my story was not so bad after all. Actually it was rather funny. There are some clips online from it, email me and I will send you the link.

Comment by Y Bridge on December 21, 2008 at 7:46pm

A lot of people do this, it's to hard to look in the mirrow, people want the easy way out, so if something happens to you ,ask yourself could I have done something different and if not then go on with your life

Comment by It Aint About Us Project on December 21, 2008 at 6:22pm

Speak for yourself Max. LOL. Some people may, others do not. You speak of generalizing and there you go. It takes a wise man to listen to the whole story before you judge.

Check out the blog that was just featured. That is an example of what I am talking about. There are two sides to every story.

You are Free. Stop dragging the garbage with you, let it go. No one wants to have to shovel through a stack of mess to get to you to reach out and lend you their hand.

Comment by Mike Shannon on December 21, 2008 at 3:10am

I'm no angel, but sure, sometimes I've been blamed for things I didn't do. The problem lies with the accuser and it is hard to defend yourself against misconceptions or lies. If you are silent it is taken for guilt, if you protest you are justifying your "misdeeds".
Trust in yourself, your loved ones and turn the other cheek, maybe in time the truth will be known.
Mike

Comment by Moiko President & CEO on December 21, 2008 at 1:08am

If I were angry at the world, because I feel like the whole world is beating me up, I would ask myself, what am I doing that says come beat me. I would not go to a person I have never met before and say, I have been beaten by the whole world, so, now I expect you to beat me too.

At some point in your life Max, I would think that you would look at life from a different perspective - approach it with a more positive, faithful, exciting energy, and let go of the negative energy and negative vibe. Stop dragging around the beat down. If you have risen above it, why carry it with you every where you go. If I came a cross a man that has been married 3 or four times, I would have to ask myself, what is it that he is doing. If it were I, I would ask myself why am I running away people that care about me. Until one remove the cloud of the past, one can never see the sunshine.

I was watching a show on TV and this Nut was on the Psychiatric Sofa and when asked who made him feel like a nut, he started to blame other people. I don't want to be blamed because a man married a slut, who sleeps with every tom dick and harry, and then the man can't trust me. I don't want to walk into a store that has been robbed, then get followed around because of other peoples crimes, I don't want anyone to hang someone elses' Rope around my neck. Let me pay for my OWN mistakes. Is that too hard to comprehend?

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